Hinge has launched Convo Starters, a generative AI tool designed to eliminate the pressure of a first message to a potential match.
The hardest part of using a dating app isn't matching — it's figuring out what to say. Hinge's new feature targets that moment of hesitation directly. By analyzing a match's photos and prompts, it surfaces three personalized inspiration points users can turn into their own opening message.
Unlike automated scripts, the tool acts as a creative nudge, encouraging users to use their own voice to ask specific questions about a match's interests or experiences. Hinge's research found that a like paired with a comment is twice as likely to lead to a date, yet many users default to a generic "hey." Early testing indicates Convo Starters work: over a third of daters reported increased confidence reaching out, leading to more personalized interactions.
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By reducing the cognitive load of initiating a conversation, Hinge reframes dating from performance to participation. For a Gen Z audience navigating social anxiety and choice paralysis, tools that build confidence — not just connection — are becoming table stakes. In this shift, Hinge looks less like a matchmaker and more like a social coach, intervening precisely where users feel friction, and where friction causes drop-off.