A Buddhist temple has created a space in Tokyo dedicated to letter-writing as a ritual of connecting with deceased loved ones.
Shodaiji Temple's Tegamidera Hamacho, opening on 22 November 2025, allows people to "send thoughts to that person whom you will never meet again." The letters are later ceremonially burned by monks at the temple's Funabashi location, with participants receiving certificates documenting the ritual, complete with a note from the head priest.
The concept builds on Tegamidera (literally "Letter Temple"), an initiative the temple established in 2016 to help people process loss through written reflection. Since opening its first dedicated letter-writing lounge in 2017 at a cemetery in Chiba Prefecture, the temple has facilitated the burning of roughly 10,000 letters.
Now, with the launch of Tegamidera Hamacho — its first location in Tokyo — the service becomes accessible to anyone navigating grief in Japan's capital. Letter-writing kits cost JPY 3,000 (USD 19/EUR 17) and include access to a quiet space with a serene view of trees, plus tea and snacks. Anyone of high-school age or younger can participate free of charge.
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As societies grapple with how to mourn in an increasingly secular, digitally mediated world, institutions are stepping in to fill the void left by waning religious participation. By embedding contemplative infrastructure into everyday urban life and creating a structured ritual (write → post → burn → receive acknowledgment) in a safe and beautiful environment, Tegamidera helps participants give shape and meaning to their emotions.
People are seeking new ways to process not just grief, but regrets, problematic relationships and general emotional overflow. In response, opportunities are emerging to offer curated, ritualized experiences that provide more than therapy, more than self-care, and more than religion alone.



